What is the attire for the events of the weekend?

Welcome Party: Please wear white! For men: white collared shirts and pants (khaki, linen, etc.). For women: white dresses/ skirts and tops.

Ceremony / Reception: Black Tie optional.

Sunday Brunch: Casual.

Please note no blue denim is permitted on Mantoloking Yacht Club and Bay Head Yacht Club property.

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

The ceremony starts promptly at 4:30 pm. Please be at the Dale Building for the ceremony no later than 4:15 pm.

Will there be transportation?

Welcome Party: Transportation will not be provided to and from the welcome party. We recommend using Uber / Lyft or contacting a local transportation company such as Briggs Taxi or Wally’s. There is also ample parking at Mantoloking Yacht Club.

Wedding Day: There will be transportation provided to and from Bay Head Yacht Club if you are staying at the Grenville, Point Manor, or Bentley Inn. Please stay tuned for exact timing. If you are planning on driving to the wedding, there is valet parking at the main building at Bay Head Yacht Club. A golf cart is available for those who require assistance.

I got the Save the Date and can’t make it, now what?

If you know that you will not be able to attend the wedding weekend, we kindly ask that you email us at abbeydan2026@gmail.com to let us know so that we can keep our guest list up to date.

Any other questions?

Please email or text us! We would love to make this weekend as much fun for you as it will be for us, and are happy to help in any way we can! Our email is abbeydan2026@gmail.com.